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Thursday 10 March 2011

Lolguy's coming out story.

I made a post concerning this at the BGIOK forums. It went something like this:


"My mom actually found out by going through my computer and possible finding gay porn that I may or may not have had possession of at that point in time. 
Nevertheless, she says she it doesn't bother her all that much, (I'm sort of offended that it does at all, but I've come to expect it from people) but I'm still a bit wary of her. My dad just, "doesn't give a shit," I suppose. He doesn't seem at all affected by the news. 

I've also told my friends. This has turned out several ways. Shall I list them? I shall:
1. Most of them don't care either. They respect me a lot more now actually. Which, I'll admit, took me by surprise.
2. Some avoided me for a little while at first, but eventually came to accept the fact. These people are still my friends.
3. A couple of them talk to me sometimes, but avoid me most of the time. I stopped caring about these people.
4. One of them called me a stupid faggot. I told him to f-off. We don't talk anymore.

Overall, it's been one hell of an experience. And I can honestly say I was downright scared to tell most of these people. But at least (for the most part) everything turned out ok. I'm actually happier now, kind of, and talk to people more, kind of.

So yeah, story time that was. It's over now."



Anyways, a little more in depth now, since I'm sort of obligated to do so.
When my mom found out, it wasn't because I told her, she found a small stash of gay porn. After confronting me about it, we talked about me being gay for...an hour probably. She's still not 100% comfortable with it, but she'll come to accept it in time.
And as for my dad, he said, "I honestly don't give a shit. I'm just happy that you were able to tell me." Yeah, he's a pretty cool guy.


For most of my friends not caring, that's just how it looks. I got some reactions of, "Really? Wow." But that's about it. They accept me and still talk to me. Apathy is apathetic, I guess.


As for the ones that avoided me, I sort of expected some to do that. We all take news like that differently, and they just needed time to accept it. But we still get along with each other, so it's nothing big.


As for the ones that generally avoid me: It doesn't really bother me that much anymore. At first I was kind of hurt, then I realized that I had friends who accepted me for...me. I don't talk to them much anymore.


And the one that called me a stupid faggot wasn't much of a friend to begin with anyways. I've gotten over it. And besides, if he tries to start anything, I'm a better fighter than him. Haha, but seriously he's a loser and I don't associate myself with him anymore.




So that's it everyone. Thanks for reading and all. You now know a little more about that person they call Lolguy.



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